Can Substantiate Amendment Be Bullied? This is the word Psychologist
Jakarta, Response of Gunadarma University who called bullying actors only joked controversy. Can the original intention of just joking turned into bullying? Psychologist from the Personal Growth clinic, Veronica Adesla, says bullying is a manifestation of a negative self-concept. At a glance the bullying act of the bully is like a joke, but in truth he wants to intimidate to look cool and great.Pelaku not have the ability to self regulation, manage emotions, and solve problems in a healthy manner. To get personal satisfaction and acknowledgment, to be viewed and respected, he intimidates others, Veronica said when contacted detikHealth.Read also: Bullying Vs Jokes, Where is the Limit of the Difference? It is said Veronica, bully perpetrators think that by intimidating others, it will be seen cool, powerful and powerful. Though not necessarily it is seen by others.
Very likely, bullying actors actually look not cool, not great, even make their reputation even polluted. Especially in the current era, where information technology has been growing rapidly and the use of social media is done every day. Cool and great it contributes positively to the environment, community and country with the competence, added Veronica again.Read also: , This Should Be Acting If There Bullying Previously, Dr. Andri SpKJ, FAPM from Psychosomatic Clinic of RS OMNI Alam Sutera, said bullying can indeed happen to anyone. But not everyone has bully nature and can be bullying perpetrators. Bully actors are also vulnerable to problems, whether it's a family problem or a problem with the environment. Because it can not solve the problem well, then came the idea to wreak it by bully others. A bully can be seen in nature, that is selfish, want to win alone, and often tease others who have shortcomings, said Dr. Andri.Read also: Mental Characteristics of Bullying Actors: Selfish and Self-Defeating (mrs / fds)
